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Fact: Men Give Better Anal Sex to Other Men – Bi Views

Looking for bi men near me? Do men give better blow jobs and anal sex than women? One bi male member thinks so, and he's not shy about saying why.

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Men have better sex with other men than with women! Or, as one member puts it, male-to-male blow jobs and sex are far better than sex with women.

It's interesting reading the different viewpoints swingers have, whether they're straight, bi or gay. This blog post was recently made by a man who says male-to-male oral and anal sex is far better than men having sex with women. Whether he posted it to get attention or not, it certainly caught my eye, so below are some of his views on bi sex. They make an interesting read, along with many of this member's other blog posts. Enjoy!

Why men give better blow jobs: one bi male's view

"OK, so how many women am I going to piss off when I say men give better blow jobs than women? FACT. Although, saying that, I'm sure a woman can lick a pussy far better than me, but that's another thing.

I've been bi for some years and I'm thankfully single, so I get the chance to meet both men and women. I'm fully bisexual, in that I really don't mind who I have sex with. Right now I'm meeting guys, and one of my turn-ons is meeting guys who have never (or at least say they've never) had sex with another man.

I was chatting last week with a guy in the chatroom and we were having a general conversation about bi sex when I said, 'Straight men who have never had sex with another guy just don't know what they're missing out on.' I'm sure some gay or bi websites would back me up that same-sex is the best, whether that's guys giving blow jobs to other guys or anal sex. Let's be honest, what guy doesn't know his way around a cock? We've spent more time wanking than any wife or girlfriend has spent playing with us. But it seems women just don't accept this, or don't always understand it.

So the question: do blokes give better blow jobs, and do guys take anal sex better when another guy is fucking them? OK, I'm waiting for the barrage of messages from female members."

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Why so many guys try anal with other men

"I think one of the biggest reasons so many guys try sex with other men is the interest in anal sex, and for many guys that's what sets us apart from women. How many times have you read a forum post where a guy says his wife won't let him fuck her up the arse? Personally I love anal sex, even more so getting a deep fucking from another guy, and it's this one activity that makes a lot of guys turn to contacts sites so they can meet bi or gay contacts.

It's odd, but when you talk to some guys about bi sex they class themselves as straight, yet they're open-minded enough to put their hard cock inside a warm, clean arse. Why? I think it's the forbidden fruit, and the fact that wives and girlfriends won't let them fuck them in the arse.

It's a myth that a hung guy can't fuck you anally. Women who say 'you're too big to fuck me in the arse' basically just don't want to try. I'm speaking from experience here, having been deep-fucked by some VERY well-endowed guys who were amazed when they could fuck me balls deep. And before you start shouting that it's because I'm loose, I'm NOT. I just allow myself to relax and enjoy the feeling of a cock being pushed into me. I was talking recently to a female swinger and she asked me, 'Doesn't it hurt having a cock that far inside? That deep?' The answer is no. OK, the first few times you take a fucking it's a little tight, but you soon get used to it and start enjoying the feeling, and now I love it when a guy gets fully inside me.

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Usually when I meet guys it's about having my cock sucked. I know guys suck cock better than women, as last week I had a woman and a man in the same room and we all enjoyed a bi threesome. I didn't tell her, but her husband was way better than her. When we meet, oral happens first, then some anal fingering and lots of rimming."

The rest of his views are in his blog. He makes a compelling argument for why guys having sex with other guys is the best. Not my views, but his!

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Bi views: your questions

How do I meet bi men?

Join free, then search for bi and gay men near you, and read their profiles and blogs before you get in touch.

Are these the site's views?

No. They're one member's views, taken from his blog. Members have all sorts of opinions about bi sex, and you're welcome to disagree with him.

Can I read more of his blog?

Yes. Members can read other members' blog posts, including the rest of this one.

I'm straight but curious about sex with a man. Is that unusual?

Not at all. Plenty of men who call themselves straight are curious about sex with another man. You don't need a label to join or to chat to bi guys, and you can go at your own pace.

What helps with anal sex for the first time?

Take it slowly, use plenty of lube and relax. Talk to your partner about what feels good and stop whenever you want to. Most people find it gets easier with practice, as the writer says.

How do I keep anal sex safer?

Use condoms and lube, have regular sexual health checks, and talk about sexual health with partners before you meet. A sexual health clinic can also tell you about PrEP and other ways to protect yourself.

How do I meet bi guys like the writer?

Join free if you're 18 or over and start messaging. The free access button shows all male contacts, and as a member you can filter them to show bi males only.