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Looking for BDSM contacts? BDSM covers every kind of consensual play with sensation and power: bondage, discipline, femdom, D/s and S&M.

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The BDSM lifestyle covers every kind of consensual exploration of sensation and power, including bondage and discipline, femdom, dominance and submission, and sadism and masochism.

Most BDSM couples have experimented with some form of soft bondage, but some swingers get great sexual pleasure from pain, so BDSM sessions can be more hardcore, with serious restraints, rope play and torment. Everything is still consented to, though, and everyone must know their limits.

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Some BDSM terms

  • Dominant: the person giving the orders during play, who likes to be in control of others; known as the Dom, or Domme for a woman
  • Submissive: the one who enjoys following the Dominant's orders; known as a sub or slave
  • Scene: when two or more people get together to enjoy BDSM play
  • Training: conditioning or shaping the sub's behaviour, undertaken by both dom and sub
  • Discipline: a form of punishment for not obeying the dominant's orders
  • Toys: the equipment used in play, such as floggers, collars, whips, chains and clamps
  • Safe word: an agreed word the sub uses when they want the dom to stop or ease off. With a new partner, make sure they know your word before you start, as not everyone uses the same one!

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BDSM sex contacts: your questions

How do I find BDSM contacts?

Use the free access link on this page, then join free and search for BDSM, bondage and fetish members near you.

What does BDSM cover?

Every kind of consensual play with sensation and power: bondage and discipline, femdom, dominance and submission, and sadism and masochism.

What is a safe word?

An agreed word the sub uses to make the dom stop or ease off. Make sure a new partner knows yours before you start.

Is BDSM always hardcore?

No. Many couples only try soft bondage, while others enjoy serious restraints and pain. Everything is consented to, and everyone knows their limits.

Is it free to join?

Yes. Joining is free: you can browse profiles, post your ad and photos, get daily match suggestions and send a limited number of messages a day. VIP adds unlimited messaging, advanced search and the chat rooms. You must be 18 or over.