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Free Femdom Story My First Discipline Experience

Looking for femdom? Martin, 52, from the Isle of Wight, tells us about his first time with a femdom mistress he met on Swingers 247.

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Submitted by Martin, a 52-year-old single man from the Isle of Wight, who tells us about his first time with a femdom mistress he met on Swingers 247.

My first discipline experience: part one

"We hope you enjoyed your stay." That's what the woman at the hotel front desk said when I checked out. When I told her I had, I think she could tell I hadn't been there for a suit-and-tie business meeting. The address I'd given when booking was less than a mile away. I'd had one visitor, who was gone by the time the sun came up. Did I enjoy my stay? How could I not have? Thanks to the wireless internet in my room, I was already making plans for another "stay".

My guest that night was a woman I met online in the Swingers 247 community. I remember hesitating at the free registration page: would anyone ever reply to the fantasies and desires I'd post for all to see? I had my doubts about what could come of posting a profile in a community I felt so unqualified for. I had no stories to tell, no experiences to fall back on. I've been "the boss", professionally and personally, nearly all my adult life. I've carried the title of superior and enjoyed my subordinates taking direction from me, and I'd never experienced the shoe on the other foot. For some, that would be a fantasy in itself. I read countless profiles: I wanted to venture into this world of opposites and be the one wondering what would happen next. A few keystrokes and a click later, I was signed up, and my darkest fantasies began to take shape!

My computer stayed on for hours after my leap into a new world. I refreshed my new profile over and over. I don't think I'd ever been so anxious over something so slight. People were viewing my profile, but no one was messaging me. Finally, I had a moment of clarity and decided to become a premium member: that should help people take me seriously.

"You have 3 new messages": that's what I saw the next day when I logged back in. Each message said much the same: three different women inviting me to meet them in the site's chatroom. I hadn't even realised there was a chatroom; I'd been so fixated on whether a dominatrix would like my profile that I hadn't explored the rest of the site. I replied to each with an enthusiastic "Yes, what time?", and so as not to seem a total newbie, I went to familiarise myself with the chatrooms.

How had I missed this? There were hundreds of men and women chatting. I played bystander, watching the different conversations, but thankfully, as you'll see, I wasn't anonymous, and a message popped up. "Have you been a bad boy lately?" asked a woman whose screen name instantly grabbed my attention: "PainIsPleasure". A simple "yes" was my creative reply. "I know how to handle bad boys like you," she typed. Was this really happening? It was: our chat turned into role play and went on for about two hours, ending with an agreement that if I met her online again the next day, she'd call me.

The next night I met "PainIsPleasure" in the chatroom as planned, and the chat was very different from the night before. She followed up on her offer to call, I gave her my number, and the phone soon rang. We'd discovered the night before that we lived within a few miles of each other, so a meeting was by no means out of the question. From our chat and her profile, I knew she was experienced, which was a little intimidating. I told her so, and she said my intimidation only made it more interesting, and assured me we'd have a night not easily forgotten. A meeting with my new mistress was arranged: we'd confirm it the day before, and if I got cold feet, she'd completely understand, though she said she'd try to be as persuasive as possible. The meeting was set for three days' time.

After a lot of pacing and a lot of reading about S&M (sadism and masochism), etiquette, fetishes and femdom (female domination), I felt this was an opportunity I couldn't pass up. I called my new mistress and told her the meeting was definitely on. "Great, I'll see you tomorrow night at the hotel, around 8!" she replied, cheerful and relieved. In an earlier private message, she'd given me what amounted to a shopping list of accessories to make our meeting more fun. I packed them in my travel bag with a change of clothes for the morning, and off I went to the hotel, where she'd meet me later that evening…

Read what happened next in part two: the slave's first discipline.

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Martin, a 52-year-old single man from the Isle of Wight, about his first meeting with a femdom mistress he met on this site.

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