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Bi Female First Time: A Hampshire Bisexual Experience

Looking for bi females? Debbie, a 26-year-old single bi-curious woman from Southampton, Hampshire, tells us how she used Swingers 247 to set up a date with another woman.

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Sent in by Debbie, a 26-year-old single bi curious woman from Southampton, Hampshire, who tells us how she used Swingers 247 to set up a date with another woman.

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Debbie's story: curious about women

I've had many boyfriends in my time, and I even nearly got married once, but just recently I've found myself fantasising about what it would be like to 'be with' a woman. Not that I have any ideas about turning my back on men, and I'm not bitter from a soured relationship or anything. I suppose I've always been a bit curious (I think a lot of women are, even if they don't admit it), but I was never confident enough to talk about it with friends!

Where would I start? Where do you meet other bi girls? Would I have to start going to gay bars? All these questions were going round in my mind and there was no one to ask! For months I pondered it. When I was out clubbing or in pubs with my friends, I'd look at other women, trying to work out why I felt like this. Several times I caught a woman looking at me and blushed, wondering whether she was really checking me out or whether my imagination was getting the better of me! I tried to bring it up with my friends a few times, mostly once the wine had been flowing, but they just got silly and feigned slight disgust at the idea, so I didn't push it. I didn't want them to think I was a closet lesbian!

Finding bi women online

After months of wondering, fantasising and playing with myself while thinking about hot women in magazines and on TV, I decided I needed to do something about it before I exploded with curiosity. So I went online, searched for bi female contacts and came across Swingers 247. At first I was a bit worried about the word 'swingers' (after all, I'm single, not married and wanting to swap), but I read some of the information on the site and discovered that 'swinging' really is a broader term nowadays for the sexually adventurous!

I read through some of the profiles and was absolutely amazed that there were so many girls like me! Normal women of all ages and from all walks of life, just wanting some fun. So I decided to take the plunge and join up, which was really quick and easy, and within minutes I was searching for women in Hampshire I could contact.

My first night on the site

I spent the first evening reading profiles, sending messages through the site to the ones I took a fancy to and making notes on who I'd contacted. Then I went to bed and played with myself, imagining my hands belonged to someone else, exploring my body for the first time. I had an explosive series of orgasms as my imagination got wilder and wilder. What would I be like when I actually got it on with another woman? Would I be too nervous, or would it live up to my expectations?

I couldn't wait to get back online the next evening. I logged back on to Swingers 247, went straight to my inbox, and there were some replies! I grabbed a bottle of wine, poured a glass and began reading. Several of them suggested meeting in the chatroom, which I did, and before long I was chatting away with a couple of girls, and we've arranged to meet at the weekend…

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Bi female first time: your questions

How do I find bi females?

Do what Debbie did: join free, search for bi female contacts near you and message the ones you like. The free Hampshire link on this page shows all Hampshire female swingers.

Do I have to be in a couple to swing?

No. As Debbie found, 'swinging' is a broad term nowadays for anyone who's sexually adventurous, including single women looking to meet other women.

Where do bi women meet other women, if not gay bars?

A contacts site makes it easy. You can search for women near you, read their profiles and message the ones you like, without having to explain yourself to anyone.

What if my friends wouldn't understand?

You don't have to tell anyone. Your profile and messages stay on the site, so you can explore at your own pace and decide later who, if anyone, to tell.

Is the chatroom a good place to start?

Yes. Several of the women Debbie messaged suggested meeting in the chatroom first, and chatting live is an easy way to get a feel for someone before arranging to meet.

Can I find bi women in Hampshire?

Yes. The free access link on this page shows all the female swingers in Hampshire. Check out couples too, as plenty of wives are bi.

How should a first date with another woman go?

Keep it simple: meet for a drink somewhere public, let a friend know where you are and see how you feel. There's no pressure to do more than you're ready for. You must be 18 or over to join.

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