Menu Close
Join
A muscular man in a black T-shirt with his arms folded, against a grey wall
Join

Gay Cottaging: My First Time

Looking for cottaging? Bill, 36, from Bognor Regis on his first time and where it led.

Members

Swingers on Swingers 247 now

A few of the members on the site right now.

Bill is a 36-year-old single gay guy from Bognor Regis who used Swingers 247 to learn about cottaging.

Fancy trying it? Like most things, it's not what you know but who you know, and our members know the scene. As a member, you can filter your search to gay and bi men looking for cruising meets, and joining is free.

Cottaging: Bill's first time

Click here for free access to all gay ads

Let me say first that I'm no author, and to be honest, I've only recently come out, so I'm a newbie: you don't get much greener than me! I found Swingers 247 while looking for gay dating sites, or maybe a bi guy, as I didn't want to come across as a prat with a more experienced gay guy.

So I signed up and filled in my profile, and I was surprised how many gay guys were looking for dates and chatting in the chat rooms about meeting up, but I'm a chicken, so I couldn't pluck up the courage to chat.

Reading some of the profiles, guys were talking about cottaging and cruising, and one guy in Manchester seemed really knowledgeable, so I dropped him a note. He replied almost straight away with tips and things to try, so I thought, stuff it, let's give it a go!

I waited until 11pm, then drove into town to a loo where I'd seen writing on the walls from guys looking for meets. I sat in a cubicle for a while as a few people came and went, and each time my heart jumped. Then a guy came into the next cubicle and slid a piece of paper under the partition. It just said, "What are you into?" Nothing else: he didn't even want my name.

Being my first time, I didn't know what to say, so I wrote that I wanted to suck him off. He wrote back his address, a couple of streets away, and I followed him there. It didn't take long before I had a nice fat cock in my mouth without going through the whole dating process.

That was the first of many meets with guys I've found that way, and I've lost count of the cocks I've sucked and the loads I've swallowed. But I've also moved on from my cottaging days: I've had a few replies to my ads, I met a guy for a drink last week, and next week we're going to a local gay club, another first for me. Should be fun!

Bill

More members' stories

Sign Up for Free! Click here

Shirtless man in a straw cowboy hat standing in long grass

Gay cottaging: your questions

How do I find cottaging?

Join free, then search gay and bi men near you and look for those who mention cruising; members share tips by message and in the VIP chat rooms.

Is cottaging legal?

Sex in a public toilet is an offence in the UK, so meet there if you like, then take it somewhere private, as Bill does.

Are these real members' stories?

Yes. They're sent in by members and published in their own words, lightly edited.

Is it free to join?

Yes. Joining is free: you can browse profiles, post your ad and photos, get daily match suggestions and send a limited number of messages a day. VIP adds unlimited messaging, advanced search and the chat rooms. You must be 18 or over.

More gay contacts