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Our First Wife Swap: Susan and Len's Story

Susan, 45, and Len, 51, from Perth, on how they got into wife swapping.

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Sent in by Susan and Len, a couple from Perth in Scotland, aged 45 and 51, about how they got into wife swapping.

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Susan's story

At first I was confused when my husband suggested trying a wife swap. I thought he meant the TV programme! I couldn't believe he'd be looking into something like that. But when I thought about it more, after he'd explained, he just felt that at our time of life we could get much more out of our sex life. He assured me he still loved me, and nothing was ever going to change that.

He'd been reading about it on a site called Swingers 247, and though he called it wife swapping, the modern term seems to be swinging. He showed me the site; he hadn't registered, as he didn't want to do anything without me, so we signed up and made our profile together. We weren't sure what to put, so we filled in the form as best we could, which got us into the members' area, and we started reading what other members had written.

I was surprised how many couples there were, and most sounded normal, just like us. I'm no prude, but I'd never dreamt "this sort of thing" was so popular. Married couples in open relationships: could it work? Wouldn't you get jealous? I suppose it's better than an affair, but could I let my husband fuck another woman, and could I let another man touch me? Len and I have been together twenty years, and I'd never even thought of another man.

I needed a break to think, so we called it a night. My mind was reeling, but Len cuddled up to me as always, which made me feel safe, and said nothing would ever stop him loving me, and if I wasn't sure, we'd never mention it again. But as he drifted off, I couldn't stop thinking about it, and found myself turned on at the thought of a swap: meeting a couple, a few drinks, and how it would feel to touch another man and have him touch me.

We didn't mention it again until the weekend. On Saturday night we sat down at the computer again with a bottle of red wine and some nibbles, and as the wine mellowed us, we read more profiles and got very excited by what other couples said they liked. At some point I found myself rubbing my clit with one hand while the other released Len's swollen cock. We had sex right there, with a photo of a swinging couple staring back at us from the screen.

When we'd finished, with quite possibly the most explosive orgasms either of us had had in years, we sat back down and decided to contact a few couples nearby, to see if they'd meet us: soft swinging at first, as a gentle introduction to the scene...

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Susan and Len's story: your questions

How did Susan and Len get into wife swapping?

Len suggested it, they made a profile together, and reading other couples' profiles won Susan over.

Is it normal to worry about jealousy?

Yes. Susan did too; talking it through as a couple helped.

Should you start with soft swinging?

Many couples do, like Susan and Len, as a gentle introduction.

Is it free to join?

Yes. Joining is free: you can browse profiles, post your ad and photos, get daily match suggestions and send a limited number of messages a day. VIP adds unlimited messaging, advanced search and the chat rooms. You must be 18 or over.