Soft Swapping Near Me: Steve and Cathy's First Soft Swap

For many couples, soft swapping is a first step into swinging, but for some, like Steve and Cathy, it's the lifestyle they prefer. Here's their story.

Steve and Cathy's story

We'd been interested in swinging for some time, after watching an adult DVD a friend lent us, set around a swingers party. We were both very excited by the idea, so we signed up to a swingers site, but while we were working on our profiles, we both realised that watching your partner fuck someone else maybe wasn't for us. We cancelled our membership and left it at that.

Some time later, I was reading swingers stories and found one from a mature couple who loved sex but didn't want to swap partners: they liked the idea of swinging, so they soft swapped. Once I'd looked into soft swapping, I told my wife, and we both liked the idea: no full sex with other people.

We signed back up, made a profile saying we were interested in soft swapping, posted a few photos, and waited, hopeful, given how many contacts live in Hampshire. A few days later we logged back in and found three replies!

Two weren't right, but the third couple lived in Southampton, handy as we're in Hamble, not far away, and they both sounded nice. Over the next few days we chatted by email and agreed to meet for drinks and see where things went.

We invited them round, and made sure we had some good porn DVDs to set the mood, as much for us as for them: we were both very nervous. A few drinks soon steadied our nerves. Steve opened the door to Mark and his wife Sarah, and for a while it was all very tense, but the drink soon put that right, and a swingers DVD helped.

We were all watching when Steve noticed I'd opened my legs and was playing with myself. That was all the encouragement he needed: he slid over and put his hand up my skirt. That made Mark move over to me: he opened my legs, pulled my knickers off and started playing with me.

It was really odd having someone else's hand up my skirt, and what he was doing with his fingers was very different from Steve, and extremely enjoyable. Mark then pulled me up, took all my clothes off and stripped himself, which Steve noticed, and he did the same with Sarah.

Soon we were all naked, on the floor or the sofa, sucking and playing with each other. But I wanted a cock inside me, so I moved over to Steve and pulled him on top of me. He slid straight in, and Sarah and Mark did the same.

It didn't take long for us all to come. For us, having another couple in the room made it so much more exciting, and from the way Steve kept looking over, I know he enjoyed it.

We've arranged to meet them again next month.

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