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First Time Swingers Near Me: Frank and Maria's Story

Frank, 52, and Maria, 50, a married couple from Surrey, on their first night on the swingers scene.

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Sent in by Frank and Maria, a married couple from Surrey in their fifties, about their first time swinging.

Frank and Maria's first time

This secret is just too big to keep, so I'm writing about it here: I have to share it with someone before I burst!

Last night my husband and I had our first swingers get-together. I had so many emotions running through me: I was terrified and excited at the same time. We'd taken a long time going through the contacts, getting to know them as people, to see whether we'd feel attracted to them sexually.

I'm so happy our first time was a huge success. There wasn't a flicker of jealousy or insecurity: all four of us were just normal people who enjoy spending time sexually with another couple. I don't think I've ever seen my husband so hard, or known he could come so much!

I'd recommend it to any couple secure enough in their relationship to take that first step. You'll wonder why you never did it before.

Just do what we did: read other couples' profiles in detail, see who makes your heart race, chat to them, and then take the plunge.

And it's not just the sex: that kind of closeness with another couple can turn into lifelong friendships.

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First time swingers: your questions

How do first time swingers find other couples?

Like Frank and Maria: join free, read profiles in detail, chat first, and meet when you both feel ready.

Is it normal to feel nervous the first time?

Yes. Maria was terrified and excited at once; talking it through as a couple beforehand helps.

Do swingers become friends?

Often, yes. Many couples find the closeness turns into lasting friendships.

Is it free to join?

Yes. Joining is free: you can browse profiles, post your ad and photos, get daily match suggestions and send a limited number of messages a day. VIP adds unlimited messaging, advanced search and the chat rooms. You must be 18 or over.