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Swingers Terminology Swinging Terms

Reading ads from swingers near me? Here's what 3SUM, NSA, WLTM and the rest mean.

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These are the abbreviations and terms you'll see most in swingers' ads, profiles and chat rooms.

Swinging terms, A to Z

  • 3SUM: threesome, MMF or FFM (threesome sex contacts)
  • AC/DC: bisexual
  • BBW: big beautiful woman (BBW contacts)
  • BDSM: bondage, discipline/dominance, submission, sadism/masochism (BDSM contacts)
  • Bareback: sex without a condom (bareback swingers)
  • BF: boyfriend
  • BHM: big handsome man
  • BiM / BiMale: bisexual man (bi males)
  • BiF / BiFem: bisexual woman (bi females)
  • CD: cross-dresser
  • CP: creampie (creampie swingers)
  • CPL: couple
  • DP: double penetration, often part of a gangbang
  • F2F: face to face
  • FA: fat admirer
  • FB: fuck buddy (fuck buddies)
  • Femdom: female domination (femdom)
  • FFM: female, female, male threesome
  • Gangbang: group sex centred on one person
  • GF: girlfriend
  • GSOH: good sense of humour
  • LDR: long-distance relationship
  • LMAO: laughing my arse off
  • LOL: laughing out loud
  • LTR: long-term relationship
  • MBA: married but available
  • MILF: mum I'd like to fuck (MILF contacts)
  • MMF: male, male, female threesome
  • MWC: married with children
  • NS: non-smoker
  • NSA: no strings attached
  • NUMP / NUWP: no ugly men / women please
  • PMSL: pissing myself laughing
  • QT: cutie
  • Reverse gangbang: one man with a group of women
  • RL: real life
  • SALT: single and loving it
  • SINK: single income, no kids
  • SO: significant other
  • SPARK: single parent raising kids
  • SWF / SWM: single white female / male
  • Tantric sex: slow, sensual sex built around touch
  • TG: transgender
  • TIC: tongue in cheek
  • TS: transsexual
  • TV: transvestite (transvestite contacts)
  • VWE: very well endowed (VWE black male swingers)
  • WLTM: would love to meet
  • XD: cross-dressing (cross-dressing contacts)

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Swinging terms: your questions

What does NSA mean?

No strings attached: sex without a relationship or commitment.

What's the difference between MMF and FFM?

MMF is two men and a woman; FFM is two women and a man.

What does VWE mean?

Very well endowed.

Is it free to join?

Yes. Joining is free: you can browse profiles, post your ad and photos, get daily match suggestions and send a limited number of messages a day. VIP adds unlimited messaging, advanced search and the chat rooms. You must be 18 or over.