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What Female Swingers Fantasise About: Our Survey

What do female swingers near me really fantasise about? We asked our women members.

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Let's be honest: as male swingers we'd love to know what female swingers fantasise about. We might think we know what our wife or girlfriend wants, but do we? As a married swinger I thought I knew, and I was wrong.

So we asked our female members what made them want to swing, and what they fantasise about: their own fantasies, not the ones husbands and boyfriends want them to have. Here's what came out on top.

What female swingers fantasise about

  • Domination. The idea of you dominating her may turn you on, but it'll come as no surprise that plenty of women want a man to tie them up and take charge.
  • Strap-ons. Flip it over: the idea of your wife or partner wearing a strap-on and showing you what it's like to be fucked is right up there in women's fantasies.
  • Role play. Spank me, teacher! Dressing up to please a partner isn't only a man's fantasy: women love a naughty maid's outfit too.
  • Cuckolding. Having sex with another man while her partner watches, as the cuckolded husband, is one of the top fantasies: no strings, as long as he's watching.
  • Threesomes. It's not just men who think about three-way sex, but most women said they'd rather have another woman join them than another man, which says a lot about how many female swingers are bi.
  • Voyeurism. Knowing someone can watch but not come closer: if you think wives and girlfriends don't like being watched, think again. It's probably one reason dogging is so popular.

Personally, I think they're bang on the money. Join free and talk to women members about their own fantasies.

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Swingers fantasies: your questions

What do female swingers fantasise about most?

Our women members named domination, strap-ons, role play, cuckolding, threesomes and being watched.

Do women prefer FFM or MMF threesomes?

Most of the women we asked said they'd rather another woman joined them.

How do I find a partner who shares my fantasy?

Join free and read profiles: members list what they're into. VIP adds search by interest.

Is it free to join?

Yes. Joining is free: you can browse profiles, post your ad and photos, get daily match suggestions and send a limited number of messages a day. VIP adds unlimited messaging, advanced search and the chat rooms. You must be 18 or over.