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Looking for bisexual men near me? Part two of Iain's story: his first messages, his first reply and meeting Dennis for coffee.

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Part two of Iain's story about his first time with a gay guy. Start with part one if you haven't read it yet.

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Iain's story: the first messages

Once I saw some of those profiles, the urges inside were, well, intense. On one hand it made me wish I'd never found the place, but the need to finally let myself explore everything I wanted was stronger than any other thought.

So I finally summoned up the courage to write a few short messages to some who seemed, well, interesting. With my luck, my first reply was a turn-down, but I have to say it didn't feel that bad. It was disappointing, sure, but it was done nicely. It made me refine my messages a bit, and the site itself was a real help there: it was easy to find what I needed.

To make a long story shorter, one person I'd hoped would reply finally did. His name is Dennis, and he has an oriental look to him. He wears glasses, but there's a look in his eyes that made me want to meet him straight away. His profile was entertaining and showed he had a sense of humour. I like that in people, the fun factor, as I call it. I get enough serious blokes at the office, so when I go out I want to be able to laugh and just enjoy myself.

We met for coffee after exchanging a whole bunch of emails. I was pretty nervous, but Dennis had been down this road before, so he was very patient with me. I think that's partly the site itself: it lets you take your time, and there's no pressure to meet. So, after what must have seemed like an age to him, I finally agreed to meet him for coffee.

I must have known it would work out, but meeting him in the coffee shop was so electric, and so terrifying, that it gives me the shivers even now. Read part three.

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Bi male first experience, part two: your questions

How do I find bisexual men?

Use the free access link on this page, then join free and search for bi and gay men near you.

What if my first message is turned down?

Like Iain, don't let it put you off: he refined his messages and soon got the reply he'd hoped for.

Do I have to meet straight away?

No. Iain exchanged lots of emails with Dennis and met for coffee only when he was ready.

Is this part one?

No, it's part two. Part one and part three are linked from this page.

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